The world in which
we live is one that is defined by languages; these
are man-made means of communication like most
other forms of communications the world knows
of today. Often the terms that people are acquainted
with are ones that are quite fluid, and often
there is severe confusion because of this fluidity.
Indeed a term such as love is one that is fluid;
particular, in contemporary times, the word love
is so often associated with other forms of emotions.
For example, in fast-paced societies such as those
in the west, love has come to be associated with
physical love (sex). However, this is in contrast
to those who search for the essence of love.
Love is believed to have a more spiritual characteristic
to it than what it is often accepted as in modern
societies. Love is a term therefore, that has
evolved from its original meaning. At the same
time, it also must not be forgotten that love
is not devoid of its original meaning, as there
are doctrines and philosophical views of this
word love that help few contemporaries hold on
to its essence.
To begin with, there are descriptions of love
that are observed in Christianity. Particularly
in the Gospel of Mathew, Jesus describes love
as a unique form of devotion to God and to fellow-man.
Love, however, was not only supposed to be revealed
in this form through the Gospels, as it is a word
that has been preached to man ever since the Ten
Commandments were handed down to man.
Two well-known aspects of love are observed in
the Ten Commandments. These include: love for
God and love for fellow-man. It is apparent through
these two approaches of love, there is deeper
significance in the meaning of love because of
the value it awards to the existence of man. In
contrast to the contemporary, distorted meaning
of love, love mentioned in the Gospel of Mathew
holds greater significance (Mathew, 2004).
In addition to the meaning of love in the Gospel,
Socrates also has his own unique views about this
emotion or word. Socrates associates the word
love with the right actions of human beings. He
also pulls into play the gods’ acceptance
of right actions. Out of his in-depth thinking
Socrates comes to a conclusion that:
1. If the right actions are pious only because
the gods love them, then the piety of an action
would depend on the whims of the gods.
2. If the gods loved pious actions because they
were the right actions, then it can be said that
there must exist some non-divine source of value
(Apology, 2000).
By these two possible answers, Socrates almost
tells his listeners that a pious action need not
be one that is defined by what the gods say; it
may be one that is morally right, and so, the
gods love it.
In view of the word love, it might be asserted
that by love Socrates refers to the natural acceptance
and pleasure that the gods feel towards particular
actions that are morally right. Here, one can
observe the difference between Socrates’
view of love and the meaning of love that is demonstrated
in the Gospel of Mathew.
In Socrates’ view, love refers to being
pleased by something that is morally right while
in the Gospel of Mathew, it can be observed that
love refers to devotion to God and responsibility
towards one’s neighbors (Mathew, 2004).
Though these might be described as right actions,
in view of Socrates’ approach it might be
asserted that being responsible for one’s
neighbors may be morally correct, but devotion
to god, questionable. However, in view of the
Christianity as a Doctrine, one would expect Socrates
to deem devotion towards god as one’s foresworn
duty.
Socrates would not only assert that individuals
should be devoted to God as a creator, but he
would also hold that devoting one’s self
to God is good because it is right to respect
the one that created and cared for his people.
However, Socrates would certainly disagree on
being devoted to God because of fearing his wrath.
This is because of the fact that in his view it
would perhaps not be the right action (fearing
god).
In his view, it would be better to simply be
a ‘just person’ as the gods are more
appreciative of these kinds of character. Since
being just is a right action, morally speaking,
it is something that the gods would love, and
so would a sovereign God (Apology, 2000).
In addition to this approach to love, it may
also be asserted that for Socrates, love is also
associated with beauty. He asserts that Love is
the desire to procreate in beauty. From this one
may also see that love for Socrates also is related
to intimate love. It can be observed in the above
words that love for Socrates may well mean sexual
attraction with the intent of producing off spring.
However, there is nothing wrong with that because
it is the right action, whether it is considered
instinctive or not.
Furthermore, from Socrates’ point of view,
love is also:
1. one beautiful body
2. the beauty of all bodies
3. the beauty of souls
4. the beauty of laws, activities, and customs
5. the beauty of knowledge, ideas, and theories
6. Beauty in itself (Apology, 2000)
According to this small list above, it appears
that Socrates has indeed encompassed a considerable
amount under his description of the word love.
I find myself agreeing with him, especially considering
contemporary times, as love is a fluid word or
one that can have more meaning today.
From a Christian perspective, it is worth fearing
God. However, I find myself agreeing with Socratic
principles because one should love God because
he is the creator; one should not fear him. There
should of course be need to fear Him if we disrespect
Him and His work in creating us and everything
around us (Jamison, 2000).
In addition to this, I find that Socrates would
help the average Christian to analyze him/herself
in view of loving God. This is because of the
fact that Socrates encourages self-examination.
One could benefit from such examination because
Socrates holds that one can expose his or her
own flaws and work on them to live a better life.
This is why he says that the examined life is
a good life and one worth living. If a Christian
has to examine him or herself, it is almost certain
that s/he would understand what love is in essence
(Jamison, 2000).
In view of the Gospel of Mathew too, what Christ
preached could also be seen more clearly through
one’s self-examination. This is because
one would want to see exactly what is meant by
loving God and loving one’s neighbors (Mathew,
2004). It becomes increasingly clear that love
for God means respect and devotion towards Him
as our creator. This is opposed to the loving
God through fear of Him punishing us.
Looking at self-examination from another angle,
it must be asserted that self-examination is a
process through which not only can one decipher
the essence of love. This is true to say because
if one chooses to carry out self-examination for
every action and thought, one would be able to
understand the reasons behind those actions and
thoughts, and also figure out whether or not these
are justified or not. Though there may be arguments
against such a notion, it is true to assert that
through self-analysis, one can reach the truth
(Jamison, 2000).
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