Violence in the home has finally emerged from
the closet. Although it has been present for centuries,
it has become a serious topic for social scientists,
whether theorists or researchers, only in the
last two decades.
Battered Spouse Syndrome
"Battered Spouse Syndrome" describes
the recurring pattern of physical abuse by a husband
against his wife. Research indicates that, with
few exceptions, the wife is the victim in incidents
of domestic violence. It is estimated that only
one-half of spouse abuse incidents arc reported
to law enforcement officials. Spouse abuse exists
in all classes and levels of society. While the
reasons for a specific incident of violence may
be unique, certain general characteristics are
common to batterers, to battered women, and to
their interaction in a violent marriage.
Dr. Lenore E. Walker, a leading expert in domestic
violence, discovered that over 80 percent of batterers
were exposed to domestic violence during their
childhood. As a result, these men come to accept
violence as a legitimate method of asserting control
over their spouses. See Walker, "Victimology
and the Psychological Perspectives of Battered
Women," Victimology: An International Journal
8(82-104).
Childhood experiences with violence contribute
to a batterer's deeply rooted feelings of insecurity
and inferiority, which he attempts to avoid by
seeking to control his family. Control is exerted
by attempting to isolate the wife from friends,
family, outside employment, and interaction with
others, and by demonstrating unreasonable jealousy
of any of the wife's outside activities. Sexual
jealousy and the use of sex as a means of rewarding
and punishing his wife's behavior are common methods
of control used by the batterer. Batterers tend
to be extremely critical of their wives and defensive
about their own shortcomings. They blame their
wives for all of the problems existing in the
relationship--including the acts of violence.
The reasons battered women remain in abusive relationships
has been the subject of much discussion, research,
and debate among experts in the field. Two theories
have emerged. The "minority" view contends
that battered women suffer from some sort of psychological
dependency, which attracts them to abusive relationships
with men and renders them incapable of leaving
the relationship. (Frank and Golden, 5-6).
The "majority" view contends that
the abused spouse learns to be helpless, and therefore
accept the abuse against her, as a result of violence
exhibited during her childhood, the batterer's
manipulation of her emotions through psychological
and physical coercion, her isolation from others,
and economic and emotional dependence on the abuser.
Abused women have extremely low self-esteem and
fear both their husbands and life itself.
Cycle of Violence
The actual incidents of physical abuse occur
in predictable cycles. Dr. Walker has described
this as a "Cycle of Violence" containing
three distinct phases. The first phase, or "tension
building" phase, is characterized by the
husband's increased criticism of his wife, coupled
with obsessive, jealous, and irritable behavior.
The wife usually attempts to control the situation
by compliant behavior. In some instances, the
wife will provide an incident in order to have
the tension decrease or end, and in order to exert
some control of the situation.
The second phase is the battering phase, and
is the shortest of the three. Battering may begin
for no apparent reason. In some cases, the victim
will also strike out at her husband during this
phase, thereby releasing her frustration.
The third, and final phase, is termed the "loving
contrition" phase. This phase is characterized
by the abuser professing his deep sorrow for the
incident and promising to stop violent behavior
in the future. The batterer attempts to "win
back" his wife's love by buying gifts, professing
his love and devotion, and even agreeing to seek
counseling. The abused spouse naively accepts
her husbands assertions and part of the blame
for the problem.
Dr. Walker has discovered that as a violent
relationship continues to progress, the first
phase becomes longer, the third shorter or nonexistent,
and the battering more acute. (Walker, 21-35).
Spousal Violence and
Religion
Inter-spousal violence and
its relationship to religion, has received very
limited attention in the United States, and almost
none in Canada (Steinmetz 725-765). A cursory
exploration was reported in a U.S. national study
by Straus et al. (412-445). A few other studies
have focused on selected religious denominations.
For example, Brutz and Allen (491-502) have argued
that the high rates of violence found among the
Quaker wives and husbands in their sample must
be explained by a careful examination of their
religious value system as it relates to passivism
on the international level.
Brutz and Ingoldeby (16-21) also compared Quaker
rates of family violence with national data from
the Straus et al. study and reported that on some
items, the Quakers tended to be above the national
average, but that overall there were no statistically
significant differences between the national sample
and the Quakers. Laner (145-168) has compared
reported violence during courtship for Mormon
and non-Mormon college students, finding that
Mormons tended to be less aggressive or abusive
than non-Mormons, especially among women. In the
aforementioned study, Straus et al. (111-125)
argued that the relationships they found between
religious affiliation and family violence were
probably a function of differences in social and
demographic factors, such as education.
A recent 1990 survey of Utah households, however,
found rates of severe spousal violence that were
higher than the national rates reported by Straus
and Gelles (465-479), although the rates for orthodox
Mormons were significantly lower (Rollins and
Oheneba-Sakyi 301-309). Neither religiosity, income,
education, nor gender role orientation were found
to be related to spousal violence.
Modernization Theory
The modernization perspective starts with the
"inegalitarian portrait" of marital
power and asks how development undermines patriarchal
authority structures. An important feature of
development is the transition from local subsistence
economies to nationally integrated urban-industrial
economies with consumer and labor markets. Markets
for women's labor enhance the decision-making
power of wives and lower their risks of violence
by providing access to resources. Monetary resources
from employment enhance the position of wives
by reducing financial dependence on husbands.
Employment also promotes the development of psychological
resources to challenge inegalitarian situations
in the home, including self-esteem and worldviews
that embrace opportunities for change. Thus, women
employed in domestic workshops in Santiago, Michoacan,
capitalize on "the opportunities presented
by industrial growth to struggle for a more valued
and dignified position in the household . . .
to search for greater relative autonomy after
marriage" (Wilson190; see also Chant 1991;
Foster 1979; Lomnitz 1977; Murphy & Stepick
1991).
This reasoning suggests that economic opportunities
foster egalitarian relationships through transitions
in women's employment status. Economic opportunities
for women in the local economy also may strengthen
the position of wives within families, irrespective
of their actual employment status, via information
flows within communities. Through informal communication
in social networks, new standards of acceptable
behavior are learned as the individual experiences
of husbands and wives broaden vicariously through
others who are participating directly in the wage
economy. Social contagion and social comparisons
in the routines of everyday life expose families
to new, egalitarian models of organization. Thus,
economic opportunities engender change directly
and indirectly through the community context within
which families live.
Changes in the opportunity structure also have
implications for demographic behaviors that, in
turn, may influence power relations. According
to modernization theory, the demographic legacies
of agrarian societies are early marriage, high
fertility, extended families, and rural residence.
Early marriage, high fertility, and extended family
relationships are advantageous in agrarian settings
because children contribute to production and
extended families offer protection against risk.
However, this demographic configuration has negative
implications for the position of wives within
the family. Early marriages thrust young women
from a dependent relationship in the family of
origin into a dependent relationship (usually
with an older husband) in the family of procreation.
This dependence is frequently exacerbated by
the extended family, a complicated institution
with gradations in status by age and gender. Extended
families include multiple members who can compete
with the wife for the loyalty of the husband and
offer "moral" insights into proper spousal
relations (Kemper 211-232). Last, the high fertility
that accompanies early marriage detracts from
the ability of wives to challenge patriarchal
authority structures because expenditures of time
and energy on domestic activities increase with
the number of children.
Marginalization Theory
The marginalization perspective describes how
the power of wives diminishes as they shift from
the core of production to the periphery of production
with development. Women enjoy egalitarian relationships
under subsistence agriculture because spouses
are mutually dependent upon one another and have
central roles in production: "productive,
reproductive (childbearing and child rearing),
and consumptive activities are continuous and
compatible. Not surprisingly, given their interdependence,
relations between the sexes are relatively egalitarian"
(Rothstein 51). However, these relationships unravel
with development. Farm mechanization undermines
women's contributions from production because
men monopolize control over machinery (Boserup
84-93). The rural penetration of industry undermines
women's access to resources to the extent that
male labor is disproportionately in demand. As
a result, women specialize increasingly in domestic
activities and their economic dependence on husbands
increases, thereby fostering power inequality
in early stages of development.
The structure of labor market opportunities
provides additional grounds for skepticism about
the "liberating" effects of economic
development. While their income is important for
survival, employed women are typically relegated
to marginal, low-paying sectors of developing
economies. Moreover, employment cannot facilitate
egalitarian relationships if access to economic
opportunities is determined within an overall
cultural context that vests the wife's employment
decisions in the husband -- wives need their husband's
consent to seek employment (Cook 55-77). Husbands
whose role as breadwinners is threatened may resist
attempts by their wives both to get a job and
to gain bargaining leverage from employment, in
order to maintain vestiges of self-respect and
self-worth (Safilios-Rothschild 117-32).
Conclusion
On the basis of past research and broad theoretical
speculation, it was hypothesized that religious
denomination and religious commitment might influence
spousal violence. Spouse abuse cases are unpredictable
because the victimized spouse's cooperation with
law enforcement authorities is unpredictable.
Understanding the fear, isolation, and dependency
of the abused spouse will assist the prosecutor
not only in case preparation, but in overcoming
the frustration which commonly occurs after a
spouse has recanted and begins to view military.
authorities as the "enemy." Prompt intervention
is essential, and will ensure that the abuser
properly faces the consequences of a cowardly
act.
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