| Marriage is
basically the union of two bodies and souls reproducing
a newborn. Though the institution of marriage
recognizes marriages among men and women belonging
to any culture, race but until recently marriages
among same sex was not recognized any where in
the world. However, the present debate of homosexuality
and same sex marriage has created flux in the
institution of marriages. At the same time, emotional
relationships are enjoyed by both the genders
but the concept of physical relationship showered
by love and understanding is naturally sanctioned
to the amalgamation of opposite genders.
Choosing a life partner of an individuals own
choice for marriage is the basic human right of
every individual sanctioned by not only the state
but also the religious laws also provide this
basic right to humans. However, modernization
and advancement has initiated an interesting debate
about marriages, which is related to marriages
among same sex. Both the supporters and opponents
to the philosophy of marriages among same sex
have their own logics and justification to their
views. Therefore, homosexuals believe that state
should not have any right to interfere in the
personal choices of homosexuals for same sex marriage
as they also have right to choose and marry equally
to others according to the civil marriage commitments.
While on the other hand, bisexuals strongly oppose
same sex marriage and claim that it is morally
and religiously as well as legally wrong to marry
same sex.
Therefore, among the various social issues, same
sex marriage is the hottest issue debated these
days in America. Basically the debate is about
gay marriages and homosexuality in regard to morality
and legality and the moral and legal right of
the citizens. This raises many questions in our
mind like is same sex normal or abnormal? Do and
should the American citizens have the right of
same sex marriages. So lets try to understand
the different arguments regarding the various
questions about same sex marriages.
Homosexuality
Where the basic concept of sexuality is concerned,
they use it as a subject. Basically sexuality
means, the sexual nature and characteristics of
either sex; male or female, therefore this means
the sexual desires or sexual feelings of both
genders. On the other hand, homosexuality is basically
an environmental behavior, not an innate behavior.
Basically the concept of sexuality came up with
the Civil Rights Movement when masses became aware
of their social as well as other rights. Among
the other minorities in the American society,
the gays got a chance to earn recognition. Therefore,
with this the concept of homosexuality arose.
However, initially homosexuality was not accepted
but presently the increasing influx of homosexuals,
which include both, naturally born gays and cast
rated homosexual men, as well as normal genders
that practice homosexuality has increased to a
dangerous limit. The continuous rise in homosexuality
has become one of the most important social issues
of not only America as well as the other countries
are also concerned about the same issue.
Is Homosexuality Immoral or abnormal?
Though homosexuality is naturally created due
to imbalance of the distribution of genes during
the birth of a human fetus, but in the contemporary
world, homosexual behavior has become a debatable
issue. Where biological history proves that homosexuality
is natural and a normal behavior as it is broadly
found in all mammals like colored eyes and any
other genetic tendency, so animals like chimpanzees,
cows, ducks, cats and dogs etc etc. However, heterosexuals
oppose homosexual behavior and consider it abnormal.
Basically this is because the changing behavior
of human beings towards their sexual activities.
Since men and women have recognized their civil
rights and freedom to express, they have started
exploring new ideas to enjoy sex. Amongst these
ideas, homosexuality has risen though the gay
community introduced it. For the homosexuals,
same sex results into more pleasure then sexual
intercourse with opposite genders. At the same
time, some homosexuals justify their behavior
to be normal and moral as they believe love and
sex are two different philosophies so marring
with same sex is moral and normal. These are the
views of people having liberal religious ideas,
as they do not like interfering in others personal
life. Therefore, the increasing influx of homosexuality
in the gay community as well as homosexual activities
among normal men to men and women to women gave
birth to the idea of same sex marriages.
Another question that comes to our mind when
we talk about homosexuality is its moral aspect.
Well this depends upon what we consider as to
be moral and immoral. So this is another debatable
aspect of homosexuality. Moral and immoral behavior
is related to ethics, where a personal behavior
or action does not harm any other person by any
means, it is considered to be morally right. Therefore,
homosexuality if is not done forcefully humiliating
the self-respect of an individual it is moral.
While using force to enjoy sex with an individual
of the same gender or opposite sex is immoral.
Nonetheless, it is the moral, legal and religious
right of every individual to enjoy sexual relation
with a person of his/her choice. However, homosexuality
extended to the desire of same sex marriages has
intensified the concept of sexual orientation.
Though the debate of homosexuality and same sex
marriage is traditionally rooted in the religious
philosophy and the concept of morality and immoral
behavior. It has become one of the most significant
issues tangling the federal and state government
of America. However, as far as the concept of
morality is concerned, according to Bible, homosexuality
is basically an illegitimate sexual lust that
is forbidden by God. Therefore, two persons having
same sex marry to each other are not acting morally
and are absurd according to the Christian religion.
Therefore, homosexuality is biologically normal
but the increasing trends towards homosexual behavior
to satisfy personal desires rising to legality
has overcome the religious aspect of sexual orientation.
Since the Christian community strictly follows
Bible, one needs to respect the teachings of Bible
as it considers homosexuality and illicit sexual
desire not permitted by religion. At the same
time the religious liberals though do not go against
Bible but also believe that sexual satisfaction
is the religious and moral right of an individual
so far as homosexuality is not in regard to adultery
and due to use of force, it is moral and normal.
Do Citizens Have a Right to Same Sex Marriage?
The issue of same sex marriages has gained a
lot of popularity, as it is no more an emotional
or personal issue now. It has become a religious,
political, moral, rational and legal as well as
constitutional issue. Therefore, in order to find
the answer for the question that do citizens have
a right to same sex marriage, one needs to look
into all these aspects.
Since the American constitution safeguard the
civil rights of minorities and provides equal
protection with out any discrimination of sex,
class, race or creed. The supporters to same sex
marriage strongly emphasis on the legality of
same sex marriage and claims that the constitution
of America should specifically provide protection
of same sex marriages. On the other hand, the
religious school of thought criticizes same sex
marriage immensely. At the same time, one should
also be aware of the health care issues resulting
out of homosexuality. Homosexuals are at an increases
risk of various STDs like HIV virus as well as
anal cancer and psychological behavioral disorders.
However, according to a survey conducted, it is
calculated that 365,000 to 535, 000 of homosexuals
are trapped by HIV infection, where out of these
10 percent homosexual men are just only 22 years
of age.
On the other hand, the strange impact of homosexuality
on the American youth specifically students and
an adolescent is immense. Those opposing homosexuals
marriages believe that encouraging same sex marriages
via legal recognition will wash away the traditional
American culture and religious teachings of various
Churches, which defines marriage as legitimate
among opposite sex with the motive of reproduction.
However, homosexuals cannot procreate. Therefore,
providing legal protection will not only hurt
the deep-rooted national ethos and religious structure
but also threatens the traditional institution
of marriage.
However, the supporters believe that homosexual
marriages can be a source to strengthen the institution
of marriages, as love never leaves negative implications.
At the same time, against procreation, the supporters
believe that when marriages among men and women
do not result into procreation due to any deficiency
they also enjoy the right to marry and sex. So
homosexuals should also be given legal right to
marry according to their choice.
Since 5th and 14th amendments of the American
constitution provides equal rights to the citizens
of America disregard of any discrimination of
sex, race, cast and color. It at the same time
also says that state will not interfere in the
basic human right affairs of the American citizens
with out any persuasive reason. Moreover, the
1st amendment of the American constitution, safeguard
rights of individuals against sex discrimination.
So this makes us understand that prohibition against
same sex marriage is equal to sex discrimination.
Another important thing that comes to our understanding,
which discovers the right of citizens to opt for
same sex marriage, is the democratic political
structure of America. Democracy means to run the
state by the people, for the people and with the
people. Therefore, the citizens have the constitutional
as well as moral right for same sex marriages,
where the state has no constitutional right to
interfere in the basic and personal human right
of the American citizens.
On the other hand, since few states in America
has granted same sex marriage a legal status,
this should also be adopted by the other states
as the increasing influx among lesbians and gays
are an evidence of the public opinion except the
political and religious conservatives. However,
the American constitution should think for protecting
the health care issues of homosexuals similarly
as other citizens. At the same time, young homosexuals
should be educated about the negative aspects
of homosexuality instead of depriving the citizens
of their basic human right to decide for marriage
and enjoy sexual relationship with an individual
of their choice.
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